Fuck he is meant to be this big hot shot CEO who is a whiz in the bedroom. I can certainly do a love scene better, kiss better than him. Jamie Dornan was shit in the movie, fuck I couldn't have acted better than him. He wouldn't know what romance or love is if it bit him on the ass. Don't have a problem with BDSM, have a huge problem with a women being degraded and treated as play toy a sex slave like this asshole Christian Grey does to all women including the one in the books. don need to control the other person and be their sex slave. we role play do all the kink, toys, restraints, whips. we still have plenty of fun in and out of the bedroom. fuck we are both consenting adults, if she says no then she says no, same for me, if I say no to her for something then its no. I don't need a contract with my wife to have kinky sex. She later discovers that it's not, and in chapter 13 she confronts Christian and asks him when he would've told her so. In real-life BDSM, they're basically roleplay props. And even then, the slave can leave the relationship at any time.Ĥ) Speaking of contracts, they aren't legally binding.

Ketmakura on Das-Sporking pointed out that this is a Master/Slave relationship- it extends outside the bedroom and the slave has far less rights. He gives her a list of possible activities to consent/set as soft limits(I want to try, but with caution)/hard limits, but he steamrolls her reserves on caning and anal.ģ) This isn't a Dom/sub contract. This contract says that ana can 'submit a request' if she isn't exploring her sexuality (Christian pulls the 'I have more experience so I know your body better than you' card), she is sick (he'd just call a doctor), he doesn't fulfill his part of the contract ( he lies constantly and moves the goalposts so that Ana always falls short), or he endangers her (*sarcastic laughter*).Ģ) The 'hard limits' list are the things he absolutely refuses. I wanted to point out a few things:ġ) Subs IRL can end the relationship at any time. It's always good to see more people tackling this abomination.

Christian grey's contract